Archive | September 2014

FIGHT AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Happy Sunday people, hope you all went to church and for those of us that did not we ask for the Lord to forgive us and also show us his grace. This week has been a week of reflection for me, witnessed a real life DOMESTIC VIOLENCE in action and it got me thinking ” WHY WOULD A WOMAN ALLOW HERSELF TO BE ABUSED BY A MAN”. No situation should ever make you feel less than what you are.  YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE GOD’S CREATION, YOU ARE AMAZING and most of all SHE IS A LADY. Find below an excerpt culled from a poem written by Chidera of House of Zeta to continue reading go to http://www.maisondezeta.blogspot.com.

Named the poem SHE’S A LADY

A punch, a kick, a whip
She curls up as you flip
A curse, a blow, a belt
She cries with agony felt
Why so angry? Why so shady?
She has loved, cared and helped
You’ve whipped, lashed and burned
She’s forgotten and you never knew, She’s a lady!

Why are you with him? They’ve asked?
You won’t understand, I gnashed
Still in the haze, that what this is, is love
Love isn’t a problem you need to solve
You’re meant to fall and rock steady
Leave him, find another, be happy
I can’t, I won’t, I don’t know how, life without him would be crappy
A weak smile on their faces because she’s not aware, She’s a lady!

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WHY DO I NEED A WEDDING PLANNER ???

“I don’t need a wedding planner”, “Why do i need a wedding planner ?” I can handle all the details my self, is it not just to pay the vendors bla bla bla. This is the mantra we get off intending brides but the truth is that we can never underestimate the importance of a WEDDING PLANNER. These are a few reasons why a wedding planner is a necessity not an option.

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BUDGET :  Every bride wants a fairytale wedding despite the cost, we always forget that there is life after the wedding. Money is one of the hardest aspects of planning your wedding. Who’s paying, how much, when is your bill due and how do you ensure you don’t spend too much of it? A wedding planner is like a financial adviser or an accountant who specializes in weddings. They know how much things should cost, roughly what percentage of your budget will be spent in each area, whether, and when payments will need to be made in order to secure services or products. A wedding planner makes sure you don’t exceed your budget and where that happens its very minimal.

PLANNING :  A wedding planner is a professional consultant who will help you with most (if not all) of the tasks involved in planning your wedding. From vendors, accessories, etiquette and even the smallest of details, this expert has the skills and contacts necessary to make your day come together seamlessly. Not to mention that hiring a wedding planner will help you enjoy the planning process more by taking stress out of the equation!

 

downloadOUT OF TOWN WEDDING : You live in a different city from where your wedding would be held, its obvious that you work and simply cannot handle both jobs at the same time and bring that dream wedding of yours to reality. To maintain your peace and sanity, a wedding aWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWA2FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA21f!wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrRRRRplanner is a prerequisite.

EXPERIENCE : Experience they say is the best teacher and does not have any financial value. A wedding planner knows all the tricks to use to achieve the desired effect. How to manage the time, vendors, guests e.t.c.

SOUNDING BOARD : A WEDDING PLANNER is your sounding board, you bounce ideas of her and with her expertise  she refines your ideas. The wedding planner is also a tie breaker between couples, she gives her honest opinion on whatever the issues withou20130520-182745.jpgt roughing any feathers. 

So do you need a wedding planner? Of course you do, we are almost as important as the wedding itself because we give you the opportunity to actually attend your own wedding not divide yourself while you’re at it. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHY DO I NEED A WEDDING PLANNER ???

“I don’t need a wedding planner”, “Why do i need a wedding planner ?” I can handle all the details my self, is it not just to pay the vendors bla bla bla. This is the mantra we get off intending brides but the truth is that we can never underestimate the importance of a WEDDING PLANNER. These are a few reasons why a wedding planner is a necessity not an option.

20130503-133105.jpg

BUDGET :  Every bride wants a fairytale wedding despite the cost, we always forget that there is life after the wedding. Money is one of the hardest aspects of planning your wedding. Who’s paying, how much, when is your bill due and how do you ensure you don’t spend too much of it? A wedding planner is like a financial adviser or an accountant who specializes in weddings. They know how much things should cost, roughly what percentage of your budget will be spent in each area, whether, and when payments will need to be made in order to secure services or products. A wedding planner makes sure you don’t exceed your budget and where that happens its very minimal.

PLANNING :  A wedding planner is a professional consultant who will help you with most (if not all) of the tasks involved in planning your wedding. From vendors, accessories, etiquette and even the smallest of details, this expert has the skills and contacts necessary to make your day come together seamlessly. Not to mention that hiring a wedding planner will help you enjoy the planning process more by taking stress out of the equation!

 

downloadOUT OF TOWN WEDDING : You live in a different city from where your wedding would be held, its obvious that you work and simply cannot handle both jobs at the same time and bring that dream wedding of yours to reality. To maintain your peace and sanity, a wedding planner is a prerequisite.

EXPERIENCE : Experience they say is the best teacher and does not have any financial value. A wedding planner knows all the tricks to use to achieve the desired effect. How to manage the time, vendors, guests e.t.c.

SOUNDING BOARD : A WEDDING PLANNER is your sounding board, you bounce ideas of her and with her expertise  she refines your ideas. The wedding planner is also a tie breaker between couples, she gives her honest opinion on whatever the issues withou20130520-182745.jpgt roughing any feathers. 

So do you need a wedding planner? Of course you do, we are almost as important as the wedding itself because we give you the opportunity to actually attend your own wedding not divide yourself while you’re at it.